You Have Me You Use Me Dainty Wilder New Jun 2026

Dainty Wilder’s genius in this lyric is removing the euphemisms. We often say, "They take me for granted" or "I feel unappreciated." Wilder strips that back to the verb: use . By calling a spade a spade, the speaker reclaims a sliver of power. Naming the exploitation is the first step toward ending it.

Dainty experiment design (15 minutes)